
A brief guide to dealing with the loss of a family member
Dealing with the loss of a family member or somebody close is unimaginable. Even when that loss is expected, nothing
How much have you thought about setting up a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA), if at all?
This World Alzheimer’s Day (21st September), we want to highlight the importance of taking proactive steps to protect yourself and your loved ones. The 2024 campaign, “Time to act on dementia, Time to act on Alzheimer’s,” reminds us to plan ahead. We need to take action before it’s too late.
A Lasting Power of Attorney is a legal document. It lets you choose trusted people to make important decisions for you if you cannot. These people are often family members or close friends.
There are two main types of power you can choose from:
By setting up a Lasting Power of Attorney, you remain in control of who acts for you. Your chosen Attorney must be over 18 and, most importantly, someone you know and trust to always act in your best interests.
In short, a Lasting Power of Attorney gives you a voice even if you no longer have one.
You may have heard of other types of power of attorney, but it’s important to know the distinctions:
Understanding these differences ensures you make the right choice to protect yourself both now and in the long term.
Do you know what it means to lack mental capacity? The NHS defines capacity as “the ability to understand information. It also means being able to make a decision and share that decision.” (source: NHS).
If someone loses capacity, it means they can’t make or communicate decisions for themselves. This may be because of dementia, a mental illness, a brain injury, or other medical conditions. Without an LPA in place, no one (not even your closest family member) has the automatic right to step in.
That is why it is crucial to act early. Creating a Lasting Power of Attorney ensures that your wishes are respected and provides peace of mind to both you and your loved ones.
Without a Lasting Power of Attorney, important decisions may be made by people you don’t know. Your loved ones might also face delays because they would need to go to the Court of Protection. This is often a lengthy and expensive process, and the court may appoint someone who does not know your wishes.
It’s worth noting:
The process of registering a Lasting Power of Attorney is straightforward but needs to be followed carefully:
We strongly recommend registering early, as the process can take several weeks. Having the paperwork in place provides reassurance that your wishes will be respected when it matters most.
“In many cases, having a Lasting Power of Attorney is even more important than making a will. It’s about protecting your dignity and ensuring you are treated the way you want to be treated during your lifetime.
Sadly, we often see families come to us when it’s already too late. When a loved one has lost capacity and their only option is to apply to the Court to become a Deputy. This is heartbreaking, expensive, and complicated. Setting up an LPA now avoids that pain and ensures your wishes are respected.”

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